Sidewalk Talk

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In a world that loves to talk, do, achieve, promote, preach, sell....what does it mean to connect, be, and listen. A podcast about #humanconnection #mentalhealth #socialhealth #empathy #belonging and #loneliness. And always thinking about justice and inclusion in all things. Join us. And share far and wide. Or start your own chapter of Sidewalk Talk in your community. www.sidewalk-talk.org

Episodes

2 days ago

Ancestral Healing Through Systemic Constellations: Cultivating Unity in Diversity with Zita Tulyahikayo

2 days ago

Ancestral Healing Through Systemic Constellations: Cultivating Unity in Diversity with Zita Tulyahikayo

In this episode of the Sidewalk Talk Podcast, host Traci Ruble interviews Zita Tulyahikayo, a clinical hypnotherapist, and systemic coach, about the profound impact of systemic family constellations. They discuss the importance of understanding one's ancestral roots and the transformative power of non-verbal, empathetic connection. They highlight upcoming initiatives like the Listening Bus Tour and share personal stories of healing and clarity through constellations' work, all while challenging conventional views on unity, diversity, and personal growth.

- 00:00 Introduction to Sidewalk Talk
- 01:16 Meet Our Guest: Zita Tule Hikayo
- 02:25 Upcoming Listening Bus Tour
- 04:21 Zita's Background and Expertise
- 07:35 The Importance of Ancestral Connections
- 12:01 Understanding Systemic Family Constellations
- 21:27 Personal Stories and Transformations
- 30:05 Memories of Sugarcane Fields
- 30:49 Ancestral Connection and Gratitude
- 33:17 Journey to Peru with Mother
- 34:40 Personal Reflections and Warrior Lineage
- 36:36 Systemic Constellations and Family Dynamics
- 39:14 The Complexity of Unity and Diversity
- 43:30 The Brutal and Beautiful World
- 46:31 Purpose and Passion in Life
- 52:24 Final Reflections and Farewell

Resources Mentioned

Zita’s Substack

The Lawyer (Magazine)

Standout Quotes

We know now that genetic information and memories are stored and passed through us. So the, the cells that would become me were in my mother when my mother was in my grandmother's womb. (Zita)
I always say you have a close bond with people who you meet as friends. But usually if you had the chance to look in the past, you'd find that you were distant relatives. And often we're more genetically closely related to our friends than we are to our actual family members. (Zita)
I think, our strongest muscle, empathy, our capacity to empathize or feel. information in our body, which then gets transmitted into meaning which we turn into words. (Zita)
We're all in trances all the time. My job work is waking people up out of trances that don't really suit them very well. And putting them into a better trance, which supports their, you know, growth and learning…(Zita)
What Constellations does is it gives you another aspect or two or three or four of the story so you have a fuller picture and with the fuller picture, the truth, which was once just your truth. (Zita)